Tuesday, May 19, 2015

This Memorial Day, Let’s Not Celebrate – Let’s Commemorate!


Having a three-day weekend is always a pleasure – especially when the weather warms up. Plenty of holidays fall on a Monday – and not too many people truly observe the honors or celebrations that they get off from work and school. Canarsie, as a community, observes Memorial Day by hosting a parade every year. Whenever the Canarsie Courier has a photographer cover the parade, it seems like fewer people participate each year. Sure, there are still local organizations and youths who lead the parade – but where are the hundreds of residents who are thankful for those who died for our freedom?

Do the scant amount of people who join the parade even know what and who it’s really for?

I recently spoke to Canarsie Lion Josephine Bolus who’s been involved in the parade since 2000. She noted that the lack of surviving war veterans still living in Canarsie is one of many reasons for our skeletal parades. Lack of understanding what Memorial Day truly commemorates is an even bigger obstacle.
Memorial Day Parade in Canarsie -circa 1980.
Josephine told me that most residents, when they see the parade coming through, just hear the noise and see the small crowd making its way along local streets. There are no thoughts about what our war heroes experienced while serving our country.
“A lot of people don’t know what it’s like to be drafted and to be told ‘you’re going to war,’” she said. “Many who served came home with missing limbs and had to be treated at V.A. hospitals.”
Do our children see the parade from this angle? How about residents who simply take free American flags – just because they’re handed out – and DON’T hang them outside their homes to show how grateful they are for our heroes?

It’s fair to say that back in the 1970s and 1980s – even into the early 1990s – Canarsie had a lot more residents who were patriotic – and more children took part in the parade because their parents had patriotic values too! No matter what country you’re from – you’re living in America and there’s a reason you’re here! Aren’t you grateful to be able to live in a country where citizens have sacrificed their lives so YOU can live in freedom in the United States?

In decades-old issues of the Canarsie Courier, we ran full pages with photos showing residents lined up along their blocks outside of their home, waiting for the parade and cheering on – proudly waving flags. They joined civic leaders for honorary salutes at our local cemetery and at the Veterans’ Circle located right at the foot of the Belt Parkway.

Is it fair to assume that a lot of those residents lost a family member to war and honoring their heroes helps them feel more connected to their loved ones?

Let’s get real! Big events led by war veterans and honorable residents are dwindling down.  Canarsie used to have organizations like the Joint Council of Senior Citizens Club and the American Legion Post 573 Ladies Auxiliary. Civic organizations – with plenty of members to fill our streets – were in full force with regular meetings. Invitations to join their board were even published in our newspaper every week.

Instead of our parade attracting more residents as it travels through our streets, you might, instead, see confused spectators standing with their arms folded as if to say, “What the hell is going on here?” Sadly, that’s what parade organizers are asking as volunteers and participants try to recruit more people who are truly grateful for their freedom…

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