Thursday, October 2, 2014

I May Have Girl Power, But I’m Not A Hypocrite!

Equal Rights have come a long way. Even though us gals can rock the vote and have the same employment opportunities as men, in most cases, we can’t deny that we have different quality of life requirements than men do.
You want to have a child? You’re about to give birth and you demand maternity leave and can’t work for a handful of months! That’ll show those men we’re equal to them and that we can work just as hard – but only if our personal choices to procreate allow us to!

Women have different medical needs than men, too – we’ve got mammograms and gynecological issues that could pop up at any time. Sure, men have health issues – but in every place I’ve ever worked that had its share of men and women employees, women were the ones who had “girlie” problems.


 
For the most part, women are also the ones who pick their children or grandchildren up from school. It must feel great to be a woman and have real “girl power” in that we have to deal with a unique cluster of situations men just don’t have to take care of or worry about.


So, why not segregate ourselves even more by creating a cab company that’s operated for and by who else – us powerful women! When I first heard about the proposal for a taxi company that would offer female-only service, I thought: Wait, don’t we want the same treatment as men? Don’t we want to live in the same world and have the same opportunities as men? Despite our shortcomings, we want the same pay as men and we don’t want to be discriminated against.

Whether a chic-only cab service, also called “SheRides,” would provide a safety net or “comfort zone” that a male taxi driver can’t provide, I personally think the idea is ridiculous. I understand that, as a woman, you want to feel “safe” while you’re traveling – but isn’t this a little overboard? Everyone has to use some form of transportation that’s not so safe. It’s my belief that a woman should know how to protect herself and defend herself in unsafe situations – and common sense should tell you that it’s not the best idea to travel in a cab alone at 2 in the morning – especially not drunk and half passed out on a weekend night – unless it’s an absolute emergency. Just because women who summon the service are reportedly met by a female driver wearing a hot pink pashmina scarf, does that mean they’re going to get extra special treatment? How about offering a free box of tampons with each ride!
What’s next, a train that only accepts female commuters at a special stop near department stores? How about a pink bus that only makes stops at certain streets for groups of women? Wouldn’t these measurements be discrimination?

This new service is also supposed to open the doors of opportunity for women who want to be taxi cab drivers. Really? What factors have stopped them from being cab drivers in the first place? Obviously, something about driving a car – that doesn’t belong to them – at all hours of the day and night and picking up strangers, to take them some place they’ve never been, is not appealing. Oh! But maybe if they’re only picking up women passengers, it’ll make a biiiiiiiiig difference! How’s that for segregating ourselves from the rest of society when we want to be “treated equal”? If you look at statistics, a large percentage of male livery cab drivers have been robbed, beaten, stabbed and killed in the city over the past five years. Other than capturing the dangerous thugs on the cab’s surveillance, how are male drivers truly supposed to protect themselves?

Anyone who transports people from one place to another is putting themselves at risk. You don’t know who you’re dealing with, if they’re armed or if they’re going to threaten you.
Instead of a service that separates women from the rest of society – as if we’re all fragile, fine china dangling off the edge of a cliff – they should work on creating more services that teach women how to have common sense while traveling. Stop putting on your makeup while you’re in your car at a stop sign. Stop wearing skanky looking clothes while you’re on Mass Transit! Stop talking to and trusting random men who could potentially follow you off the train or attack you! Need some more advice? Use your special girl powers to summon some common sense – or hop into a vehicle that discriminates against everyone else! 


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